A Letter to Someone, Anyone

An open letter to someone who needs encouragement and courage, someone who needs to know their worth in this world. 

If you find yourself reading this, you should know that you're the strongest person I know. 

In this world, not everyone can bear the obstacles that come in life. But all you need is hope and strength. Hope that it will get better and strength to hold on until it does. Everyone has their problems 'cause after all, we are humans, right? 

You might be thinking that the problems you are going through are a big deal. Let me tell you one fact: when we cry about one thing, we end up crying about everything that is messed up in life. 

In life, there is a time where our anxiety level rises. Due to which, we think too much and feel too much. You can say, that's a dangerous combination. 

Maybe you are going through it now. Maybe you want someone to help you with this. Maybe you are bearing the pain in your heart and don't know how to feel free. Maybe you need someone to make you feel happy in these 'painful' sessions. But, here's one thing: some journeys in life can only be traveled alone. 

The pain you carry in your heart needs to go out. Cry if you want, be angry if you want. Scream into your pillow or punch a wall just to let your pain go out. If it doesn't work, find it out yourself. This might be hard at first, but when you think of it thoroughly, you will get to the point. 

Dear friend, you don't know me. I don't know you. But I do know something. You're not weak, you're just tired of everything. 

I know you want to hide forever in your closet.

I know how lonely you feel sometimes. 

I know how you spend the day silently and cry the pain out all night but... nothing helps, right? 

I know, maybe, you feel like you can't get through these 'painful' sessions and want to end your life but hold on a second. 

You have survived everything up to this far and why will you not be able to survive the rest? You have yet to meet people you haven't met and things you haven't experienced. 

During this time, it won't be easy to cope up with the pain you have but your struggles for it will worth it. Remember, you can do this. 

I even know that you would rather leave than stay. Even though I don't know you and have no right at all- I am asking you to stay. 

Disappointments, regrets, mistakes, anxiety, and depression. And, yes, there will be headaches too. You'll get hurt and wonder how you'll make it through but then you'll realize this is what life is. We need to have the courage to survive it. 

Don't worry, you are doing great and I hope you will make it through everything. 

And one more thing, society will never stop judging you. When do they not? Don't fall into their trap. Continue doing whatever makes you happy. We don't know whether this is our only life or not. So, enjoy it when you have time. Don't kill your happiness for someone who doesn't even deserve your tears. Try to be happy. Even overthinking will kill your happiness and mood.

Take a deep breath, exhale, and have faith. What's meant to be will be.

This is an invitation, dare and a promise. Just hold on for a little longer.

Lastly, be grateful for what you have.

Sincerely,

A friend 

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