FRIENDSHIP- AIN'T A BIG DEAL, YET A MILLION LITTLE DEALS:-)

Someone once said "Friendship ain't a big thing, yet a million small little things❤️"

Friends, Just Friends, Best friends, Soul Friends, Good Friend, Bad Friend and what not!

Does these words or tags even have any kind of meaning within them? Untill and unless you feel them yourself?

One says,  "Friends aren't everything" at once and the next "A human is just a hollow body of flesh without a Good Friend in it's life"
What I say and believe is 'A friend is someone who is the reason for your current attitude that you hold, the reason for the way you behave right now, the reason behind your that smile the most, and can even be the reason behind your tears sometimes".
There are endless meanings, explanations, and even statements made in this world for this one little word - FRIEND❤️
One make some people as their "Only Friends" the rest as "Best Friends, Besties, Bffs", and mostly that one and only Friend as their "Soul Friend Forever"
And accordingly by their name, categorise both of their worth in their life.
Again, I say "Friends are Friends, all of them deserve your equal time, deserve their equal worth in your life, why to just categorise their position by just some tags and names?"
Is it going to be any fair that way?
I guess it's  a "No!"?

"Friends aren't just Friends, they are Family"
This statement is actually so true, to be honest but again, when that most close friend of yours does something totally unexpected and something which lead to your trust broke.
How does it feels?
Isn't it much much deadly than a so called "heartbreak" or a "break-up with the love of your life" ??
It really is.

"Friends are those who will help you in your tough times, Friends are those who will be with you till the end"

We kinda aren't sure, how much these statements will really mean in real life, Will it be that effective as it seems, or it will result in the exact opposite way? We are actually having an idea about possibly nothing, because we really can't predict anything of the future or what not which will be showing up. Sometimes your own family member can betray you and can make you feel as a stranger, and when that only being you will be completely relying your life upon will be your one and only FRIEND.

I actually believe that "Friends are those idiots who act as the only advisor you ever needed during anytime and maybe everytime, you might not need the presence of one of your family members at times but you will be dreading for that only person's presence, whom you call as your friend."
Again, Friend Circle plays the biggest role in many aspects of ones life, afterall it is surely going to matter, with which people and how the people are, with whom you actually are with, in the present.
Friend Circles will define your behavior in the present time, they will define the way you will think about yourself and the world currently. Afterall, it is even the reason behind the way you will act, and even speak to another person.

After everything, did you felt;
FRIENDS - ARE AIN'T A BIG DEAL, but a million little deals?
FRIENDS- people mattering the most to you, but you will always fail to express it and won't stop calling them idiots and crackheads?
FRIENDS might not be Life for most but without whom life isn't done, isn't complete?

FRIENDS ARE WHO THEY ARE, WHO ARE ACTUALLY LIFE, OR ARE THE HAPPIEST PART OF ONE'S LIFE (atleast for me),
JUST SOME STUPID PEOPLE BUT WHOM ONE NEEDS TODAY, TOMORROW AND FOREVER!💙

~a blog by Kanchita~

Do lemme know how this very writeup of mine was!
As, this time , I did took a very big and important topic to write on,  just a 6 letter word yet having the most meaning in ones life! and afterall I myself isn't sure, how it really went. As I was having so much to say on this particular topic and at the same time was even lacking with the words and the way how to express everything!
I just hope it did go well, even if a bit, if it did just let me know😊🖤

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