OUR SOCIETY V/S OUR PARENTS

Society! Huh!?

Isn't society the one who is sometimes all that our parents care of?

What will they say? Or what might they think?

Isn't everything sometimes that matters to our parents? 

Yeah, it really is.

"What will be "THEY" thinking of you after they hear about you doing such things?"

maybe this phrase is heard by most us!?

Sometimes you may not even know yourself what and who your parents are referring to but you don't have to do something you like to just because what someone who is a complete stranger to you might think is more important to your parents! 

Many a times, most of the parents don't let their children do something in their life that they always wished for.

Why?

What will the society or the people think after they hear about you studying in such a nice school and later on studying something that pays so little!?

Yeah! This is the most heard statement that we get to listen when it comes for choosing our options and roads which we will be having to take!

Although the parents are themselves sometimes very scared and conservative towards their children but usually, society and the people, and what might they think acts as the biggest  barrier between their child's dreams and them pursuing it!

Most of the times the society seeks as many possible chances to judge. Parents in between trying to protect their own children makes them blind and unaware of that they are not really acting as a shield on their children but surely as their own enemy by not letting them do something they like and were always willing to.

Parents should really respect what dreams their children are having, what they really want to do, and support them in anything they want to do, they should be the one guiding them instead of just avoiding it by  thinking it is useless as it will just pay his/her child less and lastly, what not the society and mostly the people might think!

At the end of the day, parents ends up forcing their child  with something  that  they want them to do! But their children don't.

Mostly the child fails to take up so much of burden on him/her and at the end as we all have already been seeing, SUICIDE CASES REGARDING SEVERAL LITTLE FAILS IN PARENTING are many, mostly in our country!

Just because here, sometimes society matters much much more than their own child!

Just a request to all those parents out there who are really thinking that they are anything and everything for their children, and can do whatever they want their children to do with their lives!

Just a reminder to them, Its their LIFE!! not yours.❤️

And ofcourse, you will never be wanting any harm to your own CHILDREN afterall but sometimes you caring so much about  'The Society' ends up being the biggest barrier between you and your child!

Atleast they should be having this right to take decisions of their own life which indeead are going to be having an impact on their life only, and please do support him/her in everything that they have been willing to do, guide them, help them, try to be their friend, instead of acting as the barrier between their dreams!!

Lastly

DON'T ACT IN ANYWAY POSSIBLE THAT WOULD FORCE THEM TO TAKE THEIR OWN PARENTS AS THEIR ENEMY ITSELF!!!

~a blog by Kanchita!~

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