Please Stop It!

*a small little messege to parents once again*

How often do you get compared to people  by your parents??

I myself have experienced this too much!!!
And many a times, I end up forcing myself that "yeah, it's true, I really can't be someone good and someone being myself that my parents could be proud of!!"
At possibly every moment it makes me feel that, "Is it really so? The one person I really am makes my parents feel disrespectful in the society?, Am I that useless and that meaningless for everyone?"
And maybe this thing isn't really relatable for everyone out there, but to most of the people it really is.
Parents, sometimes don't really realize that what they have been really saying by their mouth in the name of Scolding so far, they end up saying something that they really shouldn't have sometimes, they really end up saying that Slangs they  never would have told their Kids or Teenagers of my age!!
They say anything and everything to their children being aware of nothing. Later on, even if they would realize that they have said something to their children they shouldn't have out of anger bursting, they would just think that "He/She wont really care of what I said"
But dear parents, NO! "Your child cared about your words, your child did felt bad after listening to them, your child did felt useless of being himself/herself at that very next moment,  He/She did felt that it really wouldn't be possible for them to make you proud one day!!

Out of anger, you said something to them that made a very negative impact instead of a positive one which you thought would have been possible by your Harsh Words.

But please try to understand this that Kids Or A Teenager Who Don't Know Anything What Will They Be Seeing Afterwards In Lives, Something They Are Totally Unaware Of!
And you are saying something and mostly comparing your child to someone, no matter it is their own cousin, friend or even an enemy of yours!
They feel down!
Totally down.
which shouldn't be happening, atleast not now, at such a tender age!

And afterall please try to understand that, no matter how much till a point you compare your child to someone, it is so useless! You know why? Because your child is just one person who is found only once in one's lifetime, even if you want to make him/her to the person you want, no use of how much you will give your effort into it. YOU WILL SURELY FAIL. Because even if your child wants to be the person you have compared him/her this far, he/she will fail themselves. No one can change anyone into someone else. He/She will stay the way they have to, they will always stay themselves! Even the person you want your child to be like, won't be possible to change him/her to your child even if they literally want that to happen.

Because? IT IS JUST SO IMPOSSIBLE!!

I myself know that I am still a kid, who know nothing about life, who really don't think is capable anyhow to face challenges, someone who totally is immature.

I know it is not just me, not even everyone out there, but MOST of the them who think of themselves as such!

And when parents are making them remember this thing over and over again, and comparing them in a way they aren't gonna succeed in life or can gain excellence being themselves but the one they parents are comparing to him/her this far!

Again, I am not saying, parents are meaning those harsh words to their children, ofcourse they won't, after all why even will they, to their own blood? 
They really won't mean, nobody can love someone as much as their own parents can!

but parents saying things in order to make their child aware of a mistake they did isn't going to affect his/her child in anyway to rectify it!
Instead of taking it in a positive way (the way parents thought would be possible), they would take it so negatively that the parents can't even imagine!

Just another request, Please Stop It Parents!
Please, You Can't Even Imagine What Your Own Blood  Can Go Through Sometimes!

You think that they will share anything and everything to you after everything you say and have been saying for such a long while?

Again, don't think you know all about your child, little you even don't what he/she can go through, little you don't you might have lost your that happy child years ago!

Thats all I wanted and had to say!

This little not so a blog can might make some people or mostly parents feel offended and can say, I am a kid afterall, who knows nothing about stuff, maybe I don't, but atleast can imagine what another teen or a kid of my age can go through! Isn't it?
others might take my words  in a positive way, which I really don't know again.

Lastly, Parents, if you think my words were useless(because I am too young for such stuff), it's okay, maybe they were for you, but they were TRUEE. These things won't ever come to you by the mouth of your own child! He/She would just keep it to itself suffering alone (Thats the very reason for me to address it to people in such a platform, which was totally needed)

P.S- Once again, something I really was willing to address as a messege to some people out there!
And I don't know how this blog had been so far? Please do let me know if you felt my words in anyway or even felt offended!

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