Today's Teenage!

Teenage, Teenagers.

What is the first thing that comes in your mind after listening to these terms?
Just kids who are growing, and yet to see the world, yet to live it's life and to face the real challenges, as well as the real life which is in front of their eyes, isn't it?

Being a teenager is kinda difficult yet a lot  interesting! There are different challenges that we have to face, decisions to make and choose the roads which we will be having to take. The people and environment around us greatly affects the way we think and act as teenagers.
Actually being a teenager is a lot of fun just like that!
We are too curious to know about each and everything we come across, never even giving a second thought that is it going to harm us, or can also be good in any way!
We are also being too moody, at times.
Being hit by various mood swings and acting in ways, we ourselves are unaware of!

As a teenager, one has a lot of problems to go through as well, no matter small or big!
To start with the way the body is changing as one is growing and getting older by the days passing by. Sometimes it can be irritating since it is something new for us. There have been instances where one feels inferior because of these changes in his/her body. One can’t help but just to compare itself to the way other teenagers looked.  I believe that it is during this stage of one’s life when a person is most insecure of his/her physical appearance. Sometimes I myself do not feel satisfied with my body weight, the way my face looks, or the way my expressions and emotions burst out of a particular situation. One can't really help controlling tears, or anger bursting out of nowhere.
At this period of life I myself is more conscious than ever with the appearance I have.

At this point, a teen is having their future in front of their eyes, yet again they ain't sure about which option they have to choose and what they have to persue that will pay his/her bills in the future.
One says he/she wanted to be a doctor at once and another moment says that he wanted to do something for the society. One is ain't sure of  what to really become, and that one very moment he/she wants to become everything that is possible on this planet!!

Another one says he is aimless now, and will think later. No teenager is sure now what they will be persuing as their aim in life! And is confused like anything possible.

One is full of emotions, teenagers with a lot of problems not just with their relations with their family but also the way they are being treated by the people.
These things become something that affects their mentality and which inturn may lead to anxiety and maybe "depression" too.
As being an adult, or a parent, even someone close can act in a way to help him/her.
Parents today are expecting too much from their child, which makes the kid too nervous and not sure in what way he/she have to act.
And at the end of the day as we see, teenage suicidal cases are too many, afterall what a kid who isn't really sure what instances he/she might have to go through, a life in front of their eyes which he/she is yet to live, when too much pressure, and responsibility is thrown up to him/her.
What could be possibly done by them?
Ofcourse an attempt to suicide, or a suicide straight away?

As being a teenager myself, is having problems, yet is happy because, maybe I know or maybe is learning how to control myself, and mostly my emotions at times.
At this point, me ( a14y.o teenager isn't expecting anything from anyone, neither  anything from my family, nor my friends.)
But just a help if one could do to another teen which can act in a helpful way which maybe change his/her decision of ending this beautiful gift of that lord - THIS LIFE❤️ is enough!

~A blog by Kanchita~

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