IN THE END, ALL THAT MATTERS IS WHETHER YOU ARE HAPPY ENOUGH OR NOT?

So, how much till a point, being happy for you is a priority? Are you happy enough currently or not? 

So whats my point afterall, of asking all this?
Because, you might not feel it that hard, but whether you are happy enough or not at a particular moment matters so much!

Again, why I am even saying that happiness is everything in life?

You can take the best example yourself,
A human being is working so hard, day and night, why? Just to be capable of paying his/her own bills, to fulfill all of its needs, and ultimately everything points to your happiness, whether all of it is making you happy in the end or not? the way if you are content or not?
For obvious reasons, one might not feel the need  of this one word so much in life, but that do not makes this explanation that one won't need it too. 
It is  needed, it will forever be needed!
As no matter, directly or indirectly everything is so connected to you, whether you are content enough or not? Whether you are smiling at this moment or not?

Now many of you will surely question on this that, not always we need to be happy, we even be sad, we have to feel down, etc. Well ofcourse, we will be feeling down at times, sad at times, broken at times, even why not? We are humans afterall.
But none of these emotions can actually stand any nearby to your happiness and the way it is significant in your life!

Everyone is working, for just one thing, so that he can finally gain some self contentment, ultimately everything related to being happy.
But most of the times we are actually trying to prove ourselves that 'we can't be happy ever'
Well that way, for sure you won't ever feel it anyway how much you give your effort into it.

So, what might be the possible reasons behind a person not being able to happy, or isn't really willing to be HAPPY ?
Might be lacking with some stuff, might be not content with everything he have, might be having everything but just not being able to feel fulfilled.
Why? We can be so happy for anything and everything we have!
We can just enjoy thinking about so little stuff and little moments, And be grateful for the same.
But again, when we always can stay happy, why are we in a fight with ourselves and forcing ourselves to accept the fact that "We are Sad" when we actually not.

Well, now if you are saying that you aren't have things or is lacking with stuff and you don't have anything while you already have a lot, then, just think about the poorest  person on the streets with not even a roof over his head, and yet smiling like nobody in this world is a happier guy like he is.
While you, even having after having so much, yet isn't grateful or thankful of any.

Again, if you are thinking you can't enjoy your life, because you don't have an access to Netflix, Amazon prime, or trending stuff like PS or whatever, sorry but you are so wrong just like that (I myself don't have access to any of it, yet is so happy and enjoying everything, even enjoying more then the ones who have them already)
You can be enjoying even something so little, life is that beautiful to that point, there is such a beautiful world beyond Netflix and Amazon Prime. And if you don't or can't be content with any of it that you already own, you cannot even expect for any more as well.
Now, if we are talking about a person being sad all day and night, because of some mental and physical issues or disabilities, then for that, nothing will affect you much till the point you give all your attention and all thought into it! Just stop thinking about it everytime, try to have a nice distraction.
Trust me, you can be able to stay so cheerful all the time. Neither your physical health nor your mental health will be acting as an barrier between you and your happiness anymore.

Right now, if we are talking about happiness then how to be? When we are so into isolation? When we are so into a thing known as "Quarantine", being so irritated, nothing to do, bored etc..
For that, you have to give one thought about it, just think that when thousands and thousands of people are counting their last breathe, you are atleast at your home, being safe, isn't it?, no matter being bored but atleast healthy and haven't having to count any of yours.  Not just that, even during this time, such a Big Pandemic, Some aren't having a roof over their heads, lacking for the regular food a human needs to even survive.
And you? Atleast getting to eat?? Atleast sleeping on your comfortable beds?? Atleast having a roof over your head. I know these might be so small deeds for you, but please just go and ask those who don't have any of it, they will be knowing their real significance in life.
And then, when you are able to be happy, and grateful for so little things, then only you have a right to expect for bigger things to come to you.

After everything, is "Happiness" nothing in ones life? No significance of whether you are smiling enough or not?
It does have so much importance that you might be so unaware till today.

Life is actually a game itself, we can actually play it with so much peace, can even enjoy and at the end we will feel so satisfied with ourselves after passing all those difficult levels. And when everything can be passed on with you smiling, then what is the cause of  smiling? And being so serious will give you actually nothing yet you will be tensed indeed, which isn't even needed to happen. Isn't it?

But being serious is also important, I have never said it's none in life. But we don't have to let this word get over our so important thing known as "happiness"

Lastly all I wanna conclude myself is by saying that "the happiest person does not have the best of everything, they make their own kind of best of everything"

One personal tip by me if you want to apply it in your life (you may or may not follow it, all up on you)
Live your every moment that you want to TODAY, live it up to that level, that you won't have any regrets in your tomorrow that you didn't did or could have done it the previous day. Don't keep up anything that had to be done by this hour for tomorrow to get done (and by that I didn't meant study related matter particularly😅)
As we don't have any idea, what will be showing up to us, and ofcourse, what will happen next, nobody have any kind of magical power to control/or to change the thing that has to happen, so just enjoy everything till today. Tomorrow will be a new start for you, for each on of us, start for new stuff. Think it that way, and try to apply it in your life, you might be thanking me later.😉

We can enjoy, if we know how to, we can stay smiling all the time, if we want to, we can be grateful of little things and moments if we really want that to happen, WE CAN BE THE HAPPIEST PERSON HAVING EVERYTHING, IF WE REALLY WANT AND KNOW HOW TO!

~a blog by Kanchita~

This time, wrote a writeup on the topic, on which I was actually dreading to write on for days, to bring out this topic to public that ones "happiness" is so important. We never really thought that if we ain't happy, it is a no problem kind of thing. But no, it is so important and significant in your life that whether you are so okay or not in your life.

Trust me, nothing matters much more in life than you being "Okay" and mostly "Grateful" anyway.

Thats all I wanted to say, I hope no one got any kind of offend by anything I wrote above, as it was so a frank one that I found important to give it a shot.

Just let me know anything and everything you felt of this writeup (even hate, if you want to) through the following- 

kanchitadas00@gmail.com
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Thank you for reading my this one very shot till the end! 💖

Stay safe🌸