Self Love's Worth In Life
SELF LOVE
"Some things maybe equally essential but nothing is more important than a healthy sense of self-esteem and loving yourself"
Self love, or when the thing is to love your own self, many of us aren't really interested to even give it a thought on this topic and are so unaware of it's worth in life!
Loving yourself is actually one of the most needed and essential thing yet hardly any of us care about it enough.
Why is it so important and having so much significance?
LIFE BECOMES SIMPLER AND LIGHTER
When you love yourself, more than things, life simply becomes much more easier and you will start to feel the weight of life lighter already.
YOU WILL HAVE MORE INNER STABILITY AND SELF SABOTAGE LESS.
When your opinion goes up than you will stop trying to get so much validation and attention from other people.
You become less needy and find an inner stability and strength even when your world might be so negative or uncertain at times.
AND IN THE END, THE MOST IMPORTANT
YOU WILL BE HAPPIER!
The main reason why I value my self esteem so highly, why I write on topics like these so often, and have already created a ton of articles on them is simply because it has made me and my life much happier and even so much fun!
Some basics of Self Love
•Believe in your Essential Worth
No child is born unlovable. You weren't either. Whatever has happened to your lovability since then is the result of the sum of all your experiences - Both Positive And Negative.
And you have to believe in that you too have your own worth that is essential.
•Take the responsibility for anything that you don't love about yourself
Yes, your core is loveable What you do with the unloveable layers that may be covering that core is now your choice.
Appologize to anyone you have done something wrong to and do whatever it takes and give your best to heal those effected relationships. Afterall appologizing to anyone won't state that you are only the one "Always Wrong"
•Forgive Yourself For Not Being The Perfect From The Crowd
Being perfect isn't necessary to be loved or for being lovable. In fact, people who think they are "Perfect". They themselves end up doing something a "perfect person" shouldn't have done.
Actually, being loveable requires accepting yourself as the "Imperfect"
Think it that way and you are going to be seeing changes already.
"The challenge is knowing what it means to do the best you can". Be forgiving but also honest.
•Express Gratitude
Be Grateful, Show Gratitude, Say Thankyou to and for any kind of kindness which has been showed to you.
Be thankful for little things and in the end, express gratitude to everything.
•Put On A Happy Face
Over 150 years ago, poet Ella Wheeler wrote "Laugh and the world laughs with you.Weep and you weep alone"
Scientists have found that smiling and laughing makes people both feel better and seem more approachable and even more attractive to others.
Smiling is contagious. When people smile others are wired to, smile back. All those smiles and your happy face make folks more loving and lovable.
After everything, Have you really been making the effort to be and show your lovable self?
Still teenagers today, are not into loving themselves and are so uncomfortable with the person they are in real.
Just busy in comparing their bodies, and faces to the way other people had, rather than to actually find the positive difference between them and the rest.
*A small messege to all of them who are not happy and content with being "themselves"*
Not everyone born in this world is having the same looks which we can term as being "beautiful" or "handsome".
Being a different one from the crowd is yet a speciality itself.
You are different, you are born different and you should be happy that you are not alike with the rest.
You are having different capabilities and qualities with yourself that the one who you have been comparing yourself so far can even not have.
You are you, and try to be content with everything being "you" only.
*This might feel impossible for some people right now, but believe me, all of it is just the Truth, and you will try to relate to them eventually.*
Lastly,
"If you are always trying to be and act normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.
And, stop breaking yourself down to bit sized pieces to serve others.
Stay Whole And Let Them Choke."
~A blog by Kanchita~
This time, the topic that I chose had to do with how Self Love and loving your ownself can be so important.
As many of us are still even unaware of this particular topic.
In the end, if you aren't loving yourself enough you even won't be able to give it to others too.
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