WHEN MONEY OR FAME COULDN'T HELP!

*A last minute thing done, as I felt it was really important to address it to those people who have been thinking that having enough money or being popular was everything ever needed to anyone*

"Bollywood Actor Sushant Singh Rajput, aged 34 years old commits suicide on 14 June 2020, found hanging at his Bandra Residence (Mount Blanc) and was already being treated for  depression since 6 months. His sudden demise comes as a shock to the whole bollywood industry, who were still reeling from the loss of irreplaceable gems of the Hindi Film Industry in the past two months as Irrfan Khan and Rishi Kapoor who seccumed to cancer and Wajid Khan from Sajid-Wajid duo died due to cardiac problems"

I am pretty sure, kind of everyone is aware of the following news, everything that is happening and even the way 2020 couldn't have gone any worse than this.
In a matter of fact, some are waiting for what not to happen next!

While we were still recovering from losing the precious jewels of our nation, there was a sudden news breaking out that broke India, the heart of India.
Sushant Singh Rajput committing suicide for the reason which is still known to no one.
The most disheartening news that broke each one of the fans of Sushant beyond words was that-
The man who starred Chhichhore (An Irony!) -
The movie which beautifully dealt with how to fight with Suicidal Thoughts, and that Suicide is never the answer  to any question, he ended up on his word today and gave up himself.

*You might be thinking,  that how I have been just the one who was actually delivering a news so far rather than what I must be doing according to the topic, while everything is known to all already.*

But actually no! I have been here, trying to address and convey this to each one of you once again, that after everything, nether Sushant nor Irrfan had any kind of crisis financially but still are no more in this world.
So here I am actually wanting to state this, for all those people who have been thinking that having enough money, fame or popularity is everything ever needed to anyone for a healthy living.

No! all of these are certainly nothing. Money, fame or looks can't buy happiness or peace, once again the reality has been proven to be so different than what we see from outside.
Once again, mental health and inner peace have proven to be everything!
And, we also get to learn this thing today that
Happiness can't be measured by success!

What's mainly needed is people around you, whom you love, and trust, the ones who you know won't make you feel lonely ever, and who can make you feel safe and happy.
The thing needed for you is to be sure that there is peace around you. Money is nothing to make you feel like as such, it won't be something that will take away your loneliness and will never be able to make you feel happy again.
Afterall, neither do fame nor popularity can help you out with your mental health and can find you peace.

*An advice from my side*

Keep checking out on your closed  ones, you might not even know, what possible they could have been going through this far, what might be behind their smiling face, you might not know why they have been suddenly silent.
Ones mental health is actually so important!
Take care of them and be aware that they are fine and okay beforehand, they end up doing such kind of thing.
Everyone needs someone on whom they can truly count on.
Depression is actually real and don't ignore it as if it's none.

Guys, it's high time, to consider your mental health seriously.
Mental health is not a joke and depression is not a choice either. This time it's time to be strong, stronger and even braver than Sushant Singh Rajput.

If you are feeling suicidal, I urge you to seek for help. Nothing is permanent, not even when you have a terminal illness or have been sentenced to 20 years in the prison. Time and perspective change even the most trenchant of beliefs. Trust me you'll be so fine eventually. I swear suicide hadn't been the solution to anything ever!

~A blog by Kanchita~

Was working and was about to upload on a total different topic but, I had to change my plan at the last minute after the news of one of my favourite personalities and from whom I was inspired so much is no more, passed my head.
I don't know if this was just a total co-incidence, but I was just watching one of my favourite movies of SSR (Kedarnath) and was just getting done with the ending part of it where he dies and how suddenly i got the notification of a tweet having the news in it!
I was shocked beyond words for the next while! What I completely thought and believed at the begining was that, "Is it a freakin' joke or a rumour that is spreading up?" But eventually how I got to know it was unfortunately everything true!!

The sudden demise of the legendary artist Sushant Singh Rajput (who I admired the most) actually broke me, and I am sure maximum of us! How he himself taught us that suicide was never the answer to any problem in anyone's life, and in the end how he himself is no more because of the same.
We would never even could have given this thought in our dreams, that what could possibly have been behind that cutest smile of his, which always used to highlight his face even more, everytime he was on camera.
Now that I can finally imagine what might be going onto him everytime when he was behind the camera.

Sushant must have been facing an immense amount of mental trauma and stress, we can't even think about.
It actually feels flashy to see the life of a celeb from outside.
But only they know what battles they are fighting in their heads!

I can't hope, for his soul to rest in peace as he is still alive in my heart forever. In a matter of fact, I will still be unable to accept the fact that he is dead! 

He was always there and will be! All I can just hope for his soul to find purpose again.

His works will be a matter of pride for our nation and a thing to learn for generations🖤

ALWAYS LOVED AND FOREVER MISSED SUSHANT!❤️

And so I thought, rather than reading and tweeting everything about it, sharing it with possibly everyone I know, I just knew I had to make this writeup possible at the last moment, as I just couldn't help, but as much this news saddened me, it grew an even more powerful spirit to actually address the real thing on how mental health can be so important, and the way money, fame or even popularity can do nothing to actually make it any better.

To anyone, who had been going through a difficult time.
No matter what field you are from, don't hesitate to have a word to your closed ones.
Let them know anything about it.

People, if you are actually too down and low currently, it's okay, every body gets upset at various points in it's life, you are not the only one!
and trust me, time will eventually heal everything (even if I sound impossible right now, but it really will)
But I swear
Suicide is never an option!
I repeat,
NEVER.
It really wasn't the answer to your problem, nor will it be.

*Just A Reminder In Case It's Needed*
If Suicide ever crosses your mind, just know we would rather listen to your whole story than to attend your funeral!

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kanchitadas00@gmail.com
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