IT'S OKAY TO NOT HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT

Dear Teenagers, 

Being a lot specific and straight to the point, how many times have you thought that you wish you lead an life without problems, something that you have always imagined and mostly  a very much "okay" life?

Probably, there would be a lot of hands raising up behind that screen (At least I hope so)

And you know what? I don't even know what exactly would even strike you in your mind at this hour. But all I want to say is problems are actually good for you. It acts in a much helpfully way in this life of your's without even realising it. 

You won't have a perfect life afterall! Nobody did, or even will ( Ik that's something I always tell because it's seriously so true. I myself have felt it a lot😉)

Now, I mean wow, the internet is FULL of posts on what we should and shouldn’t be doing in our age.

 I did read quite a lot of them. They somehow make you feel a lot positive about you or about the situation you are in but to only a particular certain.

Well, somewhere or the other you might even agree with me, reading motivational stuff on the internet (anywhere) doesn't really makes all the shit back to this place as like before.

Though can help for you to be positive for a little bit but there is an end. Well, there has to be. 

And I know, then comes, where you feel a cherry on the top by one of your adults (no matter who)what you should actually do regarding the problems you have, I know again.. makes it worst.

“DISTRACT YOURSELF WITH STUDIES”

Well, shit.

 All I personally feel at that very next moment is shit about  being myself. Studies for a teenager is all an adult cares off (It's just that, I think it that way. You don't have to agree with me if you don't want to🤷🏻‍♀️)

And then, I got a flashback to those times when the same “adults” gave me advice about enjoying my school years… only this time around I found my shoulders scrunched up, mind racing all over again.

This is truly a great advice. I even did a lot of times, But still ain't certain about many questions on the second step too... 

Am I doing enough? Am I doing it right? Am I where I should be and belong? Am I enjoying my teenage as much as I should be? Am I really taking advantage of my “teen life”? Why don’t I have it all figured out?

I know it sounds silly to stress about this stuff, but some days I can’t help but feel so much pressure to have my life together. Especially when everything is moving SO FAST. Sometimes I wish I could hit the pause button for a hot sec, take a deep breath and put things back into a single perspective.

And that’s just what I did.

I opened up my laptop again and starting writing this blog post because we could all use this reminder from time to time.

Thanks to my mini breakdown (hormones, y’all…) I came out of it with the realisation that the only thing I’m doing wrong is stressing  too much about not doing things right.

Whatever age you may be, please know, you’re not supposed to have it all figured out. Life is meant to be stressful and confusing and surprising and amazing.
You know you don't have to make an explanation  about something that you may have done wrong, or answer to every damn question to yourself  that reflects to  how good or bad you are. 
 If you  did had all the answers and everything was peachy at all times, then life would be pretty damn boring, wouldn’t it? You won't really have much to even think of, if it would have gone that way!

It’s okay to not know. It’s okay to not have an answer to some question. It’s okay to go with the flow and roll with the punches. It’s OKAY to not have your life figured out. 

Tell yourself from time to time to let go of the idea in your head of what life should be, and just accept it how it is and where you’re at right now. As long as you’re gently pushing yourself every day towards the person you want to become, you’re doing it right. Belive in what you are doing.

So give yourself a break once in a while.

And next time you’re stressin’, pour yourself some big girl juice and know you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be and you are exactly doing what you are supposed to be.

A Blog By Kanchita~
Well, I haven't exactly filled up this particular blog post with a lot of motivational shit (unlike most of the previous times I did) but today, I tried to make it more relatable for you regarding all those problems you may have in your lives. As in which, I wanted to make you sure that it's actually so alright to not have a 'figured out' life. It is just perspective in the end to look into the situations in one's life.
I will just hope for you to relate and mostly like it.

Thank You❤️

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